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Swinging Safely

The vast majority of meets set up through dating sites, friendship sites or swinging and fetish sites are absolutely fine and very safe, however you can never be too careful.  OnlyMeets is a responsible platform that values the safety of our community over anything so take a few moments to read our safety guidelines, most of them you will know already but it never hurts to have a refresh.

Swinging Safely

The vast majority of meets set up through dating sites, friendship sites or swinging and fetish sites are absolutely fine and very safe, however you can never be too careful.  OnlyMeets is a responsible platform that values the safety of our community over anything so take a few moments to read our safety guidelines, most of them you will know already but it never hurts to have a refresh.

Online Safety

Whenever you use the internet there are always potential safety issues but by following some basic rules will let you browse and chat with confidence.  The following are suggestions that OnlyMeets recommends so that you can feel relaxed knowing that you are safe.

Don't give your home address online

Don't give your full name

Don't post your telephone number online

Don't post your email online

We strongly recommend that when arranging first meets that these are set in public places - you can always go to a hotel or other private place once you feel comfortable. Swinging clubs, pubs, bars, restaurants, basically anywhere that is public works!

Remember, OnlyMeets offers a free verified profile service and we encourage members to use this facility so we can ensure all profiles are accurate with respect to members' sex and age.  If you are talking to someone who is not verified then exert extra caution over arranging meets, especially private first meets.

Club Safety

Swinging Clubs and BDSM or Fetish venues offer an excellent standard of both cleanliness and safety, so these venues are perfect for first time meets and also those who prefer to keep their kinky lifestyle away from their home postcode.  All the clubs that we know operate a high level of safety such as ID requirements and a strict zero tolerance approach to harrasment.  No always means No.

However, we would still urge a level of caution and would be careful about giving too many personal details such as address or telephone numbers.  Also, if you are leaving the club by yourself then we would again recommend caution, if it is not too late then phoning a friend when you are leaving and staying on the phone until you reach your method of transport is always sensible.

Meet Safety

So you have arranged a private meet and you can already feel the knots in your stomach, we don't think first time meeting nerves ever stop but there are some quick and easy ways to ensure you feel safe and comfortable and have the best time possible.

If you are meeting at home, hotel room or other private place then we would recommend speaking on the phone first, even if you withhold your number you can tell a lot from a phone call.  You already know that OnlyMeets offers a free verification service so look for the tick on their profile so that the age and sex has already been confirmed by us.  If you can let a friend know you are going on a "date" then this is also good practice, maybe even get them to ring you incase you feel the need to leave.

Golden rule is that if you feel uncomfortable in any way then either arrange the meet in a public place or cancel the meet.

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