As a socially responsible platform OnlyMeets prioritises the safety of our community members above all else. Please take a few moments to read our safety guidelines, some advice may seem obvious but we ask you take the time to read.

Online Safety

Whenever you use the internet for any purpose there are always potential safety issues but following some basic rules will allow you to browse and chat with confidence.  The following are suggestions that OnlyMeets recommends for first meets, even if you are experienced in the scene it does not hurt to be over careful.  If you have any worries or concerns about a member on our site we ask you contact our support team who will assist.

Don't give your home address

Don't give your full name

Don't give your telephone number

Don't give your email

We recommend that first meets are set in public places - you can always go to a home, hotel or other private place once you feel comfortable. Swinger clubs, pubs, bars, restaurants, basically anywhere that is public works!

Remember, OnlyMeets offers a free verified profile service and we strongly encourage members to use this facility so we can ensure all profiles are accurate with respect to the members' sex and age.  If you are talking to someone who is not verified then take extra caution over arranging meets, especially if the meet is not in a public spot.

Club Safety

Swinger clubs and BDSM or fetish venues offer an excellent standard of both cleanliness and safety, so these venues are perfect for first time meets and also those who prefer to keep their kinky lifestyle away from their home postcode.  All swinger clubs and swinging hotels that we know operate a high level of safety such as ID requirements and a strict zero tolerance approach to harassment.  No always means No.

Meet Safety

Once you have arranged a meet there are some quick and easy ways to ensure you feel safe and comfortable and have the best time possible.

If you are meeting at home, hotel room or other private place then we would recommend speaking on the phone first, even if you withhold your number. Don't forget that OnlyMeets offers a free verification service so look for the tick on their profile that confirms the age and sex on their profile is accurate.  Ensure you have transport to and from your meet location planned out and ask a friend to call you at a set time to check on you. At any time, if you feel uncomfortable consider arranging the meet in a public place or cancel the meet.

Sexual Safety

Taking your sexual health as seriously as your physical or mental health is an absolute must.  The Swinging, BDSM and Fetish communities are primarily built on a combination of trust, rules and respect, this ensures that all pre-defined boundaries, such as protected or unprotected sex, are clear to all parties and followed at all times.

However, if you are sexually active we would recommend regular testing regardless of how you meet your play-dates, especially if you prefer bareback.  Your local testing clinic service can be found by clicking here and many of the swinger clubs also hold free anonymous testing sessions.

Concerns or worries?

In the unlikely event you have any concerns over a community member we ask that you reach out to our support team immediately through our contact us page.