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Age Play
A very common fetish where there is a substantial age gap between the playing parties. Many women find the thought of an older and experienced man a huge turn on and you will find many women in their 20's and 30's keen to meet males over 50.
However, the kink is not limited to just older man and younger women, we see a lot of younger men very keen to meet older ladies (cougars) and of course the same is true in reverse with lots of older women loving the feel, touch, and stamina of younger men.
Age Play
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A very common fetish where there is a substantial age gap between the playing parties. Many women find the thought of an older and experienced man a huge turn on and you will find many women in their 20's and 30's keen to meet males over 50.
However, the kink is not limited to just older man and younger women, we see a lot of younger men very keen to meet older ladies (cougars) and of course the same is true in reverse with lots of older women loving the feel, touch, and stamina of younger men.
BDSM
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This acronym covers a huge part of the sexual landscape with many actively participating in activities that are covered by BDSM without even realising, so if you have ever used a blindfold, handcuffs, spanked or even role played then you have already joined the BDSM club.
The term stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It covers a wide range of kink, fetish, and role playing often involving power exchanges and sometimes the application of physical or psychological stimulation.
Bondage and Discipline (B&D): Bondage involves physically restraining a partner, which might include using ropes, cuffs, or other restraints. Discipline refers to the use of rules and punishments to enforce obedience or behaviour compliance.
Dominance and Submission (D&S): Dominance is the act of taking control, giving orders, or setting tasks. Submission is the act of giving control or authority to another, often involving acts of service, obedience, or surrender.
Sadism and Masochism (S&M): Sadism involves deriving pleasure from inflicting pain, discomfort, or humiliation on another with masochism is the enjoyment of receiving pain, discomfort, or humiliation. A basic example of this can include spanking which many couples have enjoyed at some point.
It is common, and sensible, to ensure that boundaries, limits, and ”Safe Words” are set before BDSM activities and all parties have a degree of trust to ensure maximum enjoyment.
BDSM
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This acronym covers a huge part of the sexual landscape with many actively participating in activities that are covered by BDSM without even realising, so if you have ever used a blindfold, handcuffs, spanked or even role played then you have already joined the BDSM club.
The term stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It covers a wide range of kink, fetish, and role playing often involving power exchanges and sometimes the application of physical or psychological stimulation.
Bondage and Discipline (B&D): Bondage involves physically restraining a partner, which might include using ropes, cuffs, or other restraints. Discipline refers to the use of rules and punishments to enforce obedience or behaviour compliance.
Dominance and Submission (D&S): Dominance is the act of taking control, giving orders, or setting tasks. Submission is the act of giving control or authority to another, often involving acts of service, obedience, or surrender.
Sadism and Masochism (S&M): Sadism involves deriving pleasure from inflicting pain, discomfort, or humiliation on another with masochism is the enjoyment of receiving pain, discomfort, or humiliation. A basic example of this can include spanking which many couples have enjoyed at some point.
It is common, and sensible, to ensure that boundaries, limits, and ”Safe Words” are set before BDSM activities and all parties have a degree of trust to ensure maximum enjoyment.
Breath Play
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Disclaimer: OnlyMeets does not recommend this activity, and should you engage in the following we recommend taking all safety precautions to prevent injury or the risk of death – you do not want to end up featuring on 1001 ways to die!
Breath play, also known as erotic asphyxiation, autoerotic asphyxiation, or choking play, involves intentionally restricting oxygen intake or blood flow to the brain during sexual activities to enhance sexual arousal or orgasm. There are many ways in which this fetish is enacted, from manual choking play to the use of ropes, scarves, plastic bags or specific devices that can be found online.
Safe words or signals must be clearly agreed before Breath play is considered and all parties must be fully aware of the safety risks involved – even brief periods of oxygen loss can trigger brain damage or cardiac arrest.
Breath Play
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Disclaimer: OnlyMeets does not recommend this activity, and should you engage in the following we recommend taking all safety precautions to prevent injury or the risk of death – you do not want to end up featuring on 1001 ways to die!
Breath play, also known as erotic asphyxiation, autoerotic asphyxiation, or choking play, involves intentionally restricting oxygen intake or blood flow to the brain during sexual activities to enhance sexual arousal or orgasm. There are many ways in which this fetish is enacted, from manual choking play to the use of ropes, scarves, plastic bags or specific devices that can be found online.
Safe words or signals must be clearly agreed before Breath play is considered and all parties must be fully aware of the safety risks involved – even brief periods of oxygen loss can trigger brain damage or cardiac arrest.
Breeding
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Look deep enough into the world of swinging, kink and fetish, and you will notice many guys offering Breeding services and whilst this is a quite a taboo subject it is more common that you would expect. There are many different reasons why this taboo kink is so popular, some simply enjoy the risk aspect, and some couples actually attain to get pregnant for various reasons. With respect to this fetish there must be a super deep level of understanding between partners as the risk of pregnancy can be high.
Breeding
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Look deep enough into the world of swinging, kink and fetish, and you will notice many guys offering Breeding services and whilst this is a quite a taboo subject it is more common that you would expect. There are many different reasons why this taboo kink is so popular, some simply enjoy the risk aspect, and some couples actually attain to get pregnant for various reasons.
With respect to this fetish there must be a super deep level of understanding between partners as the risk of pregnancy can be high.
Bukkake
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Bukkake refers to a sexual act where multiple participants, usually men, ejaculate on to one person, typically a woman, although variations exist in the bi/gay scene. The term originated in Japan and can be translated into “Splash” – the term also has a non-sexual reference so if you ever take a trip over to the land of the rising sun and get asked for Bukkake when you are in a restaurant don’t panic, they are offering to “splash” your noodles with toppings or sauces not cover you in cum.
Bukkake
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Bukkake refers to a sexual act where multiple participants, usually men, ejaculate on to one person, typically a woman, although variations exist in the bi/gay scene. The term originated in Japan and can be translated into “Splash” – the term also has a non-sexual reference so if you ever take a trip over to the land of the rising sun and get asked for Bukkake when you are in a restaurant don’t panic, they are offering to “splash” your noodles with toppings or sauces and not cover you in cum.
Creampie
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This term relates to where a male has unprotected sex and ejaculates leaving sperm inside the male/female. The term can be used to cover various kink situations such as Creampie Cleanup – where a partner performs oral to “clean-up”.
Creampie
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This term relates to where a male has unprotected sex and ejaculates leaving sperm inside the male/female. The term can be used to cover various kink situations such as Creampie Cleanup – where a partner performs oral to “clean-up”.
Cuck/Cuckold
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These terms are used often in both role play and real-life scenarios and is where the male watches or passively joins in whilst his female partner engages in sexual activities generally with another male. Quite often there is an element of BDSM and Dom/Sub dynamics in these situations with the male submitting to his partners sexual wishes and desires whilst enjoying the scenario.
Whilst many still think that Cuckold relates to a cheating partner this is generally not the case and the modern reference to this is where both parties agree and actively engage in the fetish for mutual pleasure. The vast majority of Cuckold relationships are consensual with defined boundaries, mutual trust and respect.
Cuck/Cuckold
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These terms are used often in both role play and real-life scenarios and is where the male watches or passively joins in whilst his female partner engages in sexual activities generally with another male. Quite often there is an element of BDSM and Dom/Sub dynamics in these situations with the male submitting to his partners sexual wishes and desires whilst enjoying the scenario.
Whilst many still think that Cuckold relates to a cheating partner this is generally not the case and the modern reference to this is where both parties agree and actively engage in the fetish for mutual pleasure. The vast majority of Cuckold relationships are consensual with defined boundaries, mutual trust and respect.
Deepthroat
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To deepthroat refers to where a person performs oral sex on a male and is able to take the penis right to the back of the mouth and down the opening of the throat. Quite often this is also combined with gagging due to the gag-reflex that can occur when deepthroat is being performed.
Deepthroat
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To deepthroat refers to where a person performs oral sex on a male and is able to take the penis right to the back of the mouth and down the opening of the throat. Quite often this is also combined with gagging due to the gag-reflex that can occur when deepthroat is being performed.
Dogging
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The UK is renowned for its dogging sites and dogging locations can be located all over the country. It is likely that we are the dogging capital of Europe, even with our bad weather!
Dogging refers to singles or couples who park up in secluded areas such as car parks, laybys, and quiet country parks, usually after dark, to engage in sexual activities either with themselves or with others either watching or joining in.
Dogging is not actually illegal but if you are caught or reported it could end up with a public indecency fine so be wary, don’t get caught!
Dogging
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The UK is renowned for its dogging sites and dogging locations can be located all over the country. It is likely that we are the dogging capital of Europe, even with our bad weather!
Dogging refers to singles or couples who park up in secluded areas such as car parks, laybys, and quiet country parks, usually after dark, to engage in sexual activities either with themselves or with others either watching or joining in.
Dogging is not actually illegal but if you are caught or reported it could end up with a public indecency fine so be wary, don’t get caught!
DP / DVP
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This is one of the most common fantasies for women and is always near the top of any red blooded males kink list. DP is short for Double Penetration and is where a female is vaginally and anally penetrated at the same time - this could either be from two males or a single male with the addition of a sex toy such as dildo or vibrator. DVP is Double Vaginal Penetration and as you may expect this is where two males (or a male plus a toy) penetrate the vagina together at the same time.
DP / DVP
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This is one of the most common fantasies for women and is always near the top of any red blooded males kink list. DP is short for Double Penetration and is where a female is vaginally and anally penetrated at the same time - this could either be from two males or a single male with the addition of a sex toy such as dildo or vibrator. DVP is Double Vaginal Penetration and as you may expect this is where two males (or a male plus a toy) penetrate the vagina together at the same time.
Edging
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Edging is sexual play where an individual or couple purposefully prolong sexual arousal by bringing themselves, or their partner, close to orgasm, then stops or reduces stimulation just before climax. This practice can also be known as "peaking" and has many purposes including increasing the strength of orgasms due to the prolonged build-up of sexual pleasure.
With practice it can also help men overcome premature ejaculation but beware of the dreaded “Blue Balls” which is an actual medical condition (not just an excuse) called epididymal hypertension. In the right company Edging can provide lots of pleasure, longer sexual sessions and super intense orgasms.
Edging
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Edging is sexual play where an individual or couple purposefully prolong sexual arousal by bringing themselves, or their partner, close to orgasm, then stops or reduces stimulation just before climax. This practice can also be known as "peaking" and has many purposes including increasing the strength of orgasms due to the prolonged build-up of sexual pleasure.
With practice it can also help men overcome premature ejaculation but beware of the dreaded “Blue Balls” which is an actual medical condition (not just an excuse) called epididymal hypertension. In the right company Edging can provide lots of pleasure, longer sexual sessions and super intense orgasms.
Findom
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Findom is short for "financial domination," and is a fetish or kink where one participant, known as the "submissive" or "pay pig," derives sexual pleasure from giving money, tributes or expensive gifts to another participant, known as the "dominant" or "domme". This practice is part of the broader BDSM community, but with a specific focus on financial control, humiliation, or power exchange through cash transactions.
There can often be ethical concerns raised about Findom and there is the potential for exploitation, so it is very important that there is some level of trust and boundaries set between consenting parties. Findom is not universally accepted or understood, even within broader kink communities, due to its unique focus on financial aspects. However, for those who engage in it, it can often fulfill specific psychological, or deep fetish desires related to power, submission, and control.
Findom
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Findom is short for "financial domination," and is a fetish or kink where one participant, known as the "submissive" or "pay pig," derives sexual pleasure from giving money, tributes or expensive gifts to another participant, known as the "dominant" or "domme". This practice is part of the broader BDSM community, but with a specific focus on financial control, humiliation, or power exchange through cash transactions.
There can often be ethical concerns raised about Findom and there is the potential for exploitation, so it is very important that there is some level of trust and boundaries set between consenting parties. Findom is not universally accepted or understood, even within broader kink communities, due to its unique focus on financial aspects. However, for those who engage in it, it can often fulfill specific psychological, or deep fetish desires related to power, submission, and control.
Foot Fetishes
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As you would expect by the name, Foot Fetishes are where there is a sexual interest or desire in feet and is not limited by sex although it is far more common for men to find gratification in women's feet than the opposite way around. The are no real limits for Foot Fetishes so let your mind roam free. This is one of the most common kinks with men, not so much with women.
Foot Fetishes
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As you would expect by the name, Foot Fetishes are where there is a sexual interest or desire in feet and is not limited by sex although it is far more common for men to find gratification in women's feet than the opposite way around. The are no real limits for Foot Fetishes so let your mind roam free. This is one of the most common kinks with men, not so much with women.
Full / Soft swop
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When arranging a meet with another couple it may say on their profile "Full swop" or "Soft swop". Whilst the exact definition is loose, as it can be shaped in many ways, the usual term is used to describe if couples will full swop (penetration) or soft swop (oral).
There are many couples who enjoy playing with other couples but save penetration for their own partners, these would usually be referred to as soft swop couples. Lots osf couples who are new to swinging start as soft swop couples to test the water.
Full / Soft Swop
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When arranging a meet with another couple it may say on their profile "Full swop" or "Soft swop". Whilst the exact definition is loose, as it can be shaped in many ways, the usual term is used to describe if couples will full swop (penetration) or soft swop (oral).
There are many couples who enjoy playing with other couples but save penetration for their own partners, these would usually be referred to as soft swop couples. Lots osf couples who are new to swinging start as soft swop couples to test the water.
Greedy Girls
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A very common term often used at Swinger Clubs or fetish events to describe females who prefer the attention of more than one partner, either simultaneously or one after the other. You will find that most Swinger Clubs host regular events for women who enjoy this scenario and these events are usually very well attended.
If you are interested in attending one of these events please ensure that you follow the rules and always gain full consent before joining in.
Greedy Girls
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A very common term often used at Swinger Clubs or fetish events to describe females who prefer the attention of more than one partner, either simultaneously or one after the other. You will find that most Swinger Clubs host regular events for women who enjoy this scenario and these events are usually very well attended.
If you are interested in attending one of these events please ensure that you follow the rules and always gain full consent before joining in.
Hotwife
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Hotwife is a term you will see used often in the world of swinging, open relationships, or cuckolding, to describe a married, or committed woman who is sexually active with other men, with the full knowledge and quite often the encouragement of her husband or partner.
“Hotwifing” is never about secrets, affairs or cheating and is more about the wife's sexual freedom and the husband's pride in sharing or showcasing his wife's sexuality without necessarily involving humiliation such as with Cuckolding.
For many this lifestyle can enhance the sex life, emotional bonds, and overall relationship as it requires deep trust, understanding, openness and agreement from both parties.
Hotwife
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Hotwife is a term you will see used often in the world of swinging, open relationships, or cuckolding, to describe a married, or committed woman who is sexually active with other men, with the full knowledge and quite often the encouragement of her husband or partner.
“Hotwifing” is never about secrets, affairs or cheating and is more about the wife's sexual freedom and the husband's pride in sharing or showcasing his wife's sexuality without necessarily involving humiliation such as with Cuckolding.
For many this lifestyle can enhance the sex life, emotional bonds, and overall relationship as it requires deep trust, understanding, openness and agreement from both parties.
Impact Play
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One of the most common forms of BDSM is impact play which can be with or without the use of toys. From light to heavy, spanking is something that most adults have participated in at some point and for many it is a big part of bedroom play with toys such as paddles, floggers and whips often used.
As with many fetishes it is key that both parties’ consent and that boundaries are set with respect to areas of impact, type of impact, level of impact and that “Safe Words” are defined before play.
Impact Play
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One of the most common forms of BDSM is impact play which can be with or without the use of toys. From light to heavy, spanking is something that most adults have participated in at some point and for many it is a big part of bedroom play with toys such as paddles, floggers and whips often used.
As with many fetishes it is key that both parties’ consent and that boundaries are set with respect to areas of impact, type of impact, level of impact and that “Safe Words” are defined before play.
MMF/FFM/MFM/FMF/MFFM
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These abbreviations are in relation to the sex of the people involved in group sexual activity. To be exact, the position of the sexes within the acronym dictates how they wish to be treated – for example a MMF would mean that a Male will be the centre of attention, often indicating a bisexual threesome – a MFM would mean the Female being the centre of attention – a FMF would mean the male being the centre of attention with two Females.
MMF/FFM/MFM/FMF/MFFM
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These abbreviations are in relation to the sex of the people involved in group sexual activity. To be exact, the position of the sexes within the acronym dictates how they wish to be treated – for example a MMF would mean that a Male will be the centre of attention, often indicating a bisexual threesome – a MFM would mean the Female being the centre of attention – a FMF would mean the male being the centre of attention with two Females.
NSA / NSF
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These two commonly used terms on dating and sex sites stand for No Strings Attached and No Strings Fun but both mean the same. When you see a profile stating this, it means that they wish to be clear that they are looking for sex, or sexual activities, without any complications or commitment from either party. This term is different to FWB (Friends with Benefits) as there is no initial desire to reconnect after the event, although we do find many people initially meet for NSA and end up becoming FWB.
NSA / NSF
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These two commonly used terms on dating and sex sites stand for No Strings Attached and No Strings Fun but both mean the same. When you see a profile stating this, it means that they wish to be clear that they are looking for sex, or sexual activities, without any complications or commitment from either party. This term is different to FWB (Friends with Benefits) as there is no initial desire to reconnect after the event, although we do find many people initially meet for NSA and end up becoming FWB.
Pain Fetishes
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Part of the BDSM family, pain fetishes are more common than many realise and are generally dictated by threshold levels. “Soft Pain” kinks that most couples have tried at some point include spanking, nipple twisting and the use of candle wax. More extreme pain fetishes need to be carefully considered to ensure that both safety, respect and of course local laws are maintained. As with most BDSM fetishes these activities require a level of trust with your partner and a “Safe Word” should always be agreed to ensure that boundaries are not crossed.
Pain Fetishes
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Part of the BDSM family, pain fetishes are more common than many realise and are generally dictated by threshold levels. “Soft Pain” kinks that most couples have tried at some point include spanking, nipple twisting and the use of candle wax. More extreme pain fetishes need to be carefully considered to ensure that both safety, respect and of course local laws are maintained. As with most BDSM fetishes these activities require a level of trust with your partner and a “Safe Word” should always be agreed to ensure that boundaries are not crossed.
Pegging
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Pegging is a very common kink enjoyed by lots of bi and heterosexual couples and describes where a female penetrates the male anally, usually with a strap on but the term can also cover the use of dildos and other toys.
Pegging
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Pegging is a very common kink enjoyed by lots of bi and heterosexual couples and describes where a female penetrates the male anally, usually with a strap on but the term can also cover the use of dildos and other toys.
Rimming
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This is where oral sex is provided but instead of the penis or vagina being stimulated it is the anus. Many couples, both male and female, enjoy rimming as part of a natural sex life.
Rimming
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This is where oral sex is provided but instead of the penis or vagina being stimulated it is the anus. Many couples, both male and female, enjoy rimming as part of a natural sex life.
Spit-Roast
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One of the most common fantasies shared by all sexes, Spit Roasting refers to a sexual act where one person is penetrated by two others at the same time, usually one in the mouth (oral sex) and the other in the vagina or anus. The position can also be known by other names like "roasting". This is a super common theme in many threesomes and group play settings.
Spit-Roast
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One of the most common fantasies shared by all sexes, Spit Roasting refers to a sexual act where one person is penetrated by two others at the same time, usually one in the mouth (oral sex) and the other in the vagina or anus. The position can also be known by other names like "roasting". This is a super common theme in many threesomes and group play settings.
Sploshing
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Sex and Food, what combo could possibly be more fun? Sploshing can be generalised as the involvement of food during sexual activity and is more common that you realise. Eating food from your partner is one of the less extreme fetishes but one of the benefits is that there really is no limit to what you can use and how it can play out.
Sploshing
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Sex and Food, what combo could possibly be more fun? Sploshing can be generalised as the involvement of food during sexual activity and is more common that you realise. Eating food from your partner is one of the less extreme fetishes but one of the benefits is that there really is no limit to what you can use and how it can play out.
Squirting
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Squirting (female ejaculation) refers to the release of fluid during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. There is much debate around this subject and studies are ongoing and not all women can squirt, but those who can describe a feeling of pressure similar to needing to urinate. Squirting does not always occur at point of orgasm and the volume of fluid can vary dramatically from a few drops to biblical proportions.
For women who have never squirted there can often be a fear or taboo around it but if you are comfortable with your partner then it is rare that partners have any issues, and most find it an extreme turn on – just make sure you have the towels down. Squirting can occur through various means, some women can squirt through penetration, some through vigorous clitoral stimulation, others through anal sex and some through a combination.
And as for the fluid… well studies are still not conclusive, but it is known to contain glucose and fructose so don’t be afraid to lap it up.
Squirting
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Squirting (female ejaculation) refers to the release of fluid during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. There is much debate around this subject and studies are ongoing and not all women can squirt, but those who can describe a feeling of pressure similar to needing to urinate. Squirting does not always occur at point of orgasm and the volume of fluid can vary dramatically from a few drops to biblical proportions.
For women who have never squirted there can often be a fear or taboo around it but if you are comfortable with your partner then it is rare that partners have any issues, and most find it an extreme turn on – just make sure you have the towels down. Squirting can occur through various means, some women can squirt through penetration, some through vigorous clitoral stimulation, others through anal sex and some through a combination.
And as for the fluid… well studies are still not conclusive, but it is known to contain glucose and fructose so don’t be afraid to lap it up.
Swinging
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Swinging can be generalised in many ways with the main scenario involving couples swopping or sharing partners sexually with other couples or singles either at private venues or in dedicated clubs.
The Swinger scene is significantly larger that many realise with a lower estimate of 1,000,000 just in the UK, this represents around 1 in 40 of the UK population aged 18 to 65! It is continuing to grow in popularity, this is shown by the number of swinger sex clubs which has risen from less than 6 in 2003 to over 40 large swinger and fetish clubs and many other smaller private clubs.
There is no single definition of swinging as some swingers prefer group situations, some prefer private threesomes, some soft swop only, the list is literally endless.
Swinging
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Swinging can be generalised in many ways with the main scenario involving couples swopping or sharing partners sexually with other couples or singles either at private venues or in dedicated clubs.
The Swinger scene is significantly larger that many realise with a lower estimate of 1,000,000 just in the UK, this represents around 1 in 40 of the UK population aged 18 to 65! It is continuing to grow in popularity, this is shown by the number of swinger sex clubs which has risen from less than 6 in 2003 to over 40 large swinger and fetish clubs and many other smaller private clubs.
There is no single definition of swinging as some swingers prefer group situations, some prefer private threesomes, some soft swop only, the list is literally endless.
Top / Bottom
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These two phrases are referred to when males are looking for penetrative sex with "top" being a person who penetrates and "bottom" being the description for a person who enjoys receiving. In many of cases bi and gay males will be both a top and a bottom but there are also who are exclusively one or the other.
Top / Bottom
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These two phrases are referred to when males are looking for penetrative sex with "top" being a person who penetrates and "bottom" being the description for a person who enjoys receiving. In many of cases bi and gay males will be both a top and a bottom but there are also who are exclusively one or the other.
Voyeurism
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There are two main contexts to Voyeurism based around consent. We only deal in consensual activities at OnlyMeets so non-consensual voyeurism is not something we entertain, and peeping Tom’s are not welcome.
For those who enjoy watching others in a sexual environment there are several scenarios where this is both legal and enjoyable for all parties. Dogging is an obvious option for those who like to watch others play and most couples who go dogging will be more than keen to let others watch (or join in) – just make sure you ask first or wait to be invited.
Many of the Swinger Clubs also have observing rooms/posts where you can watch others play consensually without them being able to see you.
Voyeurism
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There are two main contexts to Voyeurism based around consent. We only deal in consensual activities at OnlyMeets so non-consensual voyeurism is not something we entertain, and peeping Tom’s are not welcome.
For those who enjoy watching others in a sexual environment there are several scenarios where this is both legal and enjoyable for all parties. Dogging is an obvious option for those who like to watch others play and most couples who go dogging will be more than keen to let others watch (or join in) – just make sure you ask first or wait to be invited.
Many of the Swinger Clubs also have observing rooms/posts where you can watch others play consensually without them being able to see you.
Watersports
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Forget the Jet-Ski, watersports in the fetish scene is one of the common taboo pleasures that consenting adults can give and/or receive and simply involves urinating on your partner. This can be done before, during or after orgasm and there are no limits on how you can use this fetish to increase the intensity of your sexual sessions. Discuss beforehand what is acceptable, what is not, and if possible, make sure there are plenty of towels down.
Watersports
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Forget the Jet-Ski, watersports in the fetish scene is one of the common taboo pleasures that consenting adults can give and/or receive and simply involves urinating on your partner. This can be done before, during or after orgasm and there are no limits on how you can use this fetish to increase the intensity of your sexual sessions. Discuss beforehand what is acceptable, what is not, and if possible, make sure there are plenty of towels down.