Forum Help - OnlyMeets 2025 swinger, sex, BDSM and Fetish Forum advice

Guidelines

Although the Forum rules can be found on the Red Rooms page it is worth reminding all members that these spaces are designed for lively chat, banter, gossip, latest news, club events and individual meet requests. Views are to be welcomed but we draw the line at abuse and this will not be allowed or tolerated.

All members are fully responsible for their posts and replies which are checked on a regular basis by admin. Should you feel there are any posts or replies that are not acceptable or violate our rules please report it via our contact us page.

Guidelines

Although the Forum rules can be found on the Red Rooms page it is worth reminding all members that these spaces are designed for lively chat, banter, gossip, latest news, club events and individual meet requests. Views are to be welcomed but we draw the line at abuse and this will not be allowed or tolerated.

All members are fully responsible for their posts and replies which are checked on a regular basis by admin. Should you feel there are any posts or replies that are not acceptable or violate our rules please report it via our contact us page.

Reputation

Members can gain a reputation mark based on the number of times they have either posted or replied to posts. There are 5 levels with the requirements being 20, 50, 100, 500, and 1,000 for levels 1 to 5 respectively. The more you engage the higher your reputation and the more likely your profile is to be looked at.

Reputation

Members can gain a reputation mark based on the number of times they have either posted or replied to posts.

There are 5 levels with these being 20, 50, 100, 500, and 1,000 for levels 1 to 5 respectively. The more you engage the higher your reputation and the more likely your profile is to be looked at.

Creating Topics

VIP and VIP+ members can create their own topics which are open for member viewing and comments by simply clicking the "+ New Topic" option. Topics of any nature can be created so long as they fall within the guidelines.

We are a swinger, BDSM, fetish, dogging and general sex hook up site so not a lot shocks us, or our members, just play nicely, play naughty, and enjoy the fun. Should you wish to remove any topic you have created this can easily be done by clicking the "Delete" option.

Creating Topics

VIP and VIP+ members can create their own topics which are open for member viewing and comments by simply clicking the "+ New Topic" option.

Topics of any nature can be created so long as they fall within the guidelines. We are a swinger, BDSM, fetish, dogging and general sex hook up site so not a lot shocks us, or our members, just play nicely, play naughty, and enjoy the fun.

Should you wish to remove any topic you have created this can easily be done by clicking the "Delete" option.

Meets Now

The Redrooms Forums allows members to post "Meet Now" requests so long as they are looking to meet within the next 24 hours.

As per the Forum rules for security, please do not add any personal details such as telephone numbers, addresses or third party chat sites into these public posts, you risk being banned. Should you be interested in any of the advertised meets simply drop the poster a direct message.

Meets Now

The Redrooms Forums allows members to post "Meet Now" requests so long as they are looking to meet within the next 24 hours.

As per the Forum rules for security, please do not add any personal details such as telephone numbers, addresses or third party chat sites into these public posts, you risk being banned.

Should you be interested in any of the advertised meets simply drop the poster a direct message.

Clubs Page

The Clubs page is for everything swinger clubs, venues and events so be sure to keep an eye on what is going on in your area. Every club has a sticky rating poll at top so please be sure to rate after your visit.

If you are looking to meet at a specific club then you are free to post your meet requests on the specified club page.

Clubs Page

The Clubs page is for everything swinger clubs, venues and events so be sure to keep an eye on what is going on in your area.

Every club has a sticky rating poll at top so please be sure to rate after your visit. If you are looking to meet at a specific club then you are free to post your meet requests on the specified club page.

Improvements

If you have any suggestions for further site additions, improvements or wish to report a bug then please use this area to post ideas or tell us where we have goofed up! The site will never be completed in terms of design and features, it is always a work in progress and we rely on you, our members and friends, to tell us what you want and how you want it.

Improvements

If you have any suggestions for further site additions, improvements or wish to report a bug then please use this area to post ideas or tell us where we have goofed up!

The site will never be completed in terms of design and features, it is a work in progress and we rely on you, our members and friends, to tell us what you want and how you want it.

Erotica

Had a steamy encounter, naughty confession, or have a kinky fantasy you would like to share? This is the perfect space to tell our community in your own words. Members are free to write both fact or fiction and be as explicit as you wish.

Many of regular contributors have found they get a lot more direct messages than the average, for some stories are the perfect foreplay.

Erotica

Had a steamy encounter, naughty confession, or have a kinky fantasy you would like to share? This is the perfect space to tell our community in your own words. Members are free to write both fact or fiction and be as explicit as you wish.

Many of regular contributors have found they get a lot more direct messages than the average, for some stories are the perfect foreplay.

Polls

Polls are a fun politics free zone so feel free to join the community polls and vote along with other members on many topics, some vanilla and some just plain filthy. Simply put a tick in the box and see what the rest of OnlyMeets thinks.

Polls

Polls are a fun politics free zone so feel free to join the community polls and vote along with other members on many topics, some vanilla and some just plain filthy. Simply put a tick in the box and see what the rest of OnlyMeets thinks.

For early access please pre-register and get to the front of the queue

For early access please pre-register and get yourself to the front of the queue