OnlyMeets is strictly restricted to 18's and over and all our members are required to upload an age verification picture to ensure we protect minors from viewing our content and accessing our services. Age verification pictures are not shown on your profile and are permanently deleted once validated.
We fully comply with all UK laws with respect to this. No access to our platform will be provided if we have reason to doubt the age of a community member.
OnlyMeets is a premium UK sex platform for those who enjoy alternative lifestyles and want to meet others who into no strings fun, swinging, fetish, BDSM, swingers clubs, sex parties, dogging and many other fetishes scenes. Our all inclusive bot free community welcomes those who are keen to discover, learn, explore, and enjoy more than just the mainstream 9-5 sexual existence and with over 1,000,000 in the UK agreeing why don't you come and take a look - our members only bite if asked!
OnlyMeets loves vanilla but we believe life is more fun with other flavours added into the mix. With our intelligent and extensive search features you can search for your ultimate fantasies both locally and nationally.
OnlyMeets welcomes both singles and couples into it's community providing a safe and fun environment for those looking to add excitement to their sex lives. Our platform has singles looking for singles, singles looking for couples, couples looking for singles, couples looking for couples, and any other variation you can think of.
If you are looking to meet genuine people for casual encounters then there really is no better place to be.
OnlyMeets is completely free to join so please take the time to register and have a look around. There are plenty of services, resources and general kinky goings on that we offer free of charge, your welcome!
Some services such as Instant Messaging and Proximity Search are intelligently secured behind the VIP paywall membership, this reduces time wasters and ensures all our members are serious about finding fun. So if you have been using other swinger, kink, fetish or BDSM sites and getting no replies to your messages, or are sick of getting messed around then give us a try.
Full unlimited VIP access to OnlyMeets is just £5 a month with no contracts, no recurring charges ,no commitment, just come and go as and when you please.
For those wishing to sell personal items via our Shop page please see the FAQ further down for VIP+ details.
The UK swinger club and private sex party scenes in the UK are huge with regular weekly events including Greedy Girls, Bi-Nights, BDSM, Couples Only, LGBQT+, and general social events taking place up and down the country. If you are new to swinging or fetish you may well be shocked to learn how big these communities are with thousands attending each and every week all over the UK.
Age ranges at swinger clubs are from those in their early 20's right through to 50+ and attendees come from all walks of life.
OnlyMeets provides a detailed section for all the main UK swinger clubs, fetish venues and private party events where you can find event details, venue pictures, address, directions and all the club facilities.
We currently do not have an App, the main reason for this is that the App store charges each and every time a VIP or VIP+ user is added so we would have to pass this cost on to you - which we don't wish to do. Also, many of our members prefer total discretion and simply would not want to have a sex app on their phone for various reasons.
If you wish to have fast access to your OnlyMeets account simply add a shortcut via the options page on your browser or add us to your favourites.
Absolutely not. We understand and totally respect that some people choose to meet and play with discretion for various reasons. By human nature, members who do have photo's will always get more attention, more messages and more requests to meet but we respect that many do not wish to have face pictures public. Members can also choose to set their pictures as public or private.
Anything so long as it is yours, you have permission to upload it, and it is legal under UK Law. To keep the site feeling fresh we limit profile photos to 8 but you can chop and change these anytime you want. Members have two photo folders, one public and one that is set to private that can only be shared with friends.
Pictures cannot show any other people apart from the account holder(s) unless you have full permission to upload and display the said picture.
To get the very best out of OnlyMeets it is important to spend some time setting your profile up.
Pictures upload clear recent images with or without your face, profiles with no pictures may find it harder to get the attention of other members. Remember, pictures can be set either as public or private and can be rotated at any point to keep your profile feeling fresh.
Complete as much of your profile as you can and always be honest. The swinger, fetish, BDSM and kink scenes have people from all walks of life, tall to small, large to little, beauties and the lovable hairy beasts. There are people from all walks of life and all professions so the more open you are the more fun you will have by matching with those who you share common interests.
Engage in the Red Room Forums, contribute, get noticed, get more profile views, a simple waterfall that will get you more attention and more meets.
A large part of the UK sex Content Creator world and the swinger, BDSM and Fetish scenes overlap, and although Content Creator's have their own spaces on mega platforms like Onlyfans, Fansly, Fanvue and ManyVids we enjoy showcasing some of their best XXX rated feeds for our VIP and VIP+ members to perve on.
UK Content Creators check out more here if you want to show our horny community your kinky talents - we even let you share your paywall links!
Photo verification is a legal requirement to ensure we protect minors from accessing our platform. To photo verify please write your username and "OnlyMeets" on a piece of paper and upload as normal with a clear face picture. If you have a couples profile then both faces must be visible.
For data protection purposes, the picture is permanently deleted once verified, and must be re-uploaded if you wish to use it on your profile.
OnlyMeets caters for many different kinks including swinging, BDSM, no strings meets, group fun, swinger clubs and many other fetishes so we offer a huge range of search features including location, age, sexuality, height, sexual interests, body sizes, smokers, and a lot more.
There are literally thousands of search options so you can find exactly who and what you are looking for!
Many of our community asked us if it was possible for them to sell their used personal items such as clothing, underwear and toys to make some extra cash. We love to recycle so have now added a VIP+ membership option at £10 a month where you can advertise items directly through your own dedicated OnlyMeets page. Perfect!
Sellers will only receive messages from VIP and VIP+ members so no time wasters as you can be confident you are speaking to genuine people and genuine buyers.
Blackbook is a secure private note station provided by OnlyMeets that cannot be seen by other members. This allows you to store notes, numbers, reminders or anything else you do not wish to keep on a personal device, i.e. for those who want to keep their kink life private. You can find your Blackbook in your profile page and all users are required to acknowledge this feature once they have registered for the site as an extra security bot fighting feature.
OnlyMeets operates with a secure socket layer certificate (SSL) provided by Encryption Everywhere DigiCert and you will see the lock sign in the address bar to show that your data is encrypted, secure and remains safe at all times. OnlyMeets is registered with the Information Commissioners Office and we follow all UK laws to ensure your data is protected at all times. At no time will your data be shared with any other third party without your explicit consent.
In the unlikely event you need to report a member please contact our support team here who will help with your concerns as soon as possible. OnlyMeets take complaints seriously and will assist wherever possible to ensure our platform remains a safe and fun environment for all everyone.
OnlyMeets is self-built by it's community who provide continued feedback, suggestions and sometimes even coding help to build our platform and we rely on members to tell us what they like, what they don't like and what they want us to develop. Please contact us here with any more features you want or if you want to help.
Support can be reached though our Contact Us page. We encourage our community to provide as much feedback as possible, positive (and negative) so we can all work together to improve the OnlyMeets platform. Remember this site is your site, built for you so love it, feed it and lets work together to build a human only community we are proud of.
Should you wish for some time away from OnlyMeets your account can either be hidden or deleted. In the event of account deletion all profile data and pictures are permanently erased from our servers and cannot be recovered. We recommend that profiles are hidden if you are looking to take a break rather than leave for good as many who leave return very quickly!
For early access please pre-register and get to the front of the queue
For early access please pre-register and get yourself to the front of the queue
